Survival mode was never meant to be your normal.
Join our life changing membership. With two decades of lived experience, professional training, and genuine support, you will never have to navigate this alone.
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This Is For You If...
You're carrying everything alone
You're in a one-sided relationship, carrying the majority of the household load. You feel invisible, unappreciated, or maybe not considered in family finances or decisions. You are exhausted at soul level. Asking and nagging your partner to step up and share the load isn't working, you need a new approach that actually works.
You have a high conflict partner
You're walking on eggshells. You feel dismissed, gaslit, or manipulated. Maybe you're not even sure if you are but you can't make sense of your partner's behaviour, and you're not sure what's real. It feels like it's always your fault and it's not safe for you to raise concerns about his behaviour.
You want to leave but you're not sure how
You know you want to leave, but don't know where to start. He's made it feel impossible and it's scary. It's really really important you leave safely, with a plan.Â
You're trying to 'co-parent' but getting nowhere
You actually can't co-parent with a high conflict ex, because what you have is a counter-parent, not a co-parent. But there are things you can do to reduce the drama. Maybe you're experiencing post-separation abuse or legal warfare from your ex. It feels like you're going nowhere and the drama just gets worse with time. You might be wondering if life will ever feel easy and peaceful again.
You're healing
Whatever your journey has been to date, you know you need to heal and return to who you were born to be. Your nervous system is jacked. You want to heal your self-worth, your anxious attachment, your people-pleasing. Maybe you feel like you can't let anyone down, or you don't feel safe setting boundaries. This is for you.
Support Changes Everything
When you have a community of women who truly get it, who don't need the backstory, who believe you without question, everything shifts. You stop questioning whether you're overreacting. You stop wondering if it's "really that bad." The constant self-doubt finally quiets down.
That's what this community is. A space where you're not figuring it out alone, where the collective wisdom of women who've walked this road becomes yours. Where you can ask the hard questions, name the patterns you're seeing, and find real solutions.
Inside SJ Collective, you are believed. You are validated. And you are never, ever alone.
Inside SJ Collective, you will be supported, educated, validated, and understood.
About Sunny
I'm Sunny, and I've walked the road you're on. The Married Single Mother doing everything alone. Separation. High conflict co-parenting. The climb out of survival mode, and then the journey back to myself, the version of me I was born to be.Â
It's been a hell of a ride, honestly some days I didn't want to keep going. But i'm so grateful for my journey now because through it I learned so much: what works, what definitely doesn't, what I can and cannot change. It gave me purpose, to help guide other women through the same experience. Two decades of lived experience and professional training later, I built this Membership so no woman has to figure it out alone. It's everything I wish I'd had when I was drowning and wanted to give up, desperate for answers.Â
It's a really cool community, I'd love for you to join us. Whatever stage you're at, there's a place for you here.Â
What's waiting for you inside
Monthly Masterclasses
Access one new pre-recorded masterclass every month inside the private membership platform, designed to help you heal, grow, and better understand your experiences. Explore topics like how to get your partner to step up and share the load, healing self-worth, trauma recovery, communicating with a hi-conflict ex, and nervous system regulation. Learn at your own pace with practical guidance you can revisit anytime.
Weekly Live Q&A's
Weekly live streams inside the membership platform where you can ask Sunny specific questions and get her expert advice and guidance. You can ask questions specific to you and can stay anonymous inside the group. See FAQ's below for more member benefits.Â
Private Women Community
We are a women only membership full of resources, we have forums for specific topics, online meetups, live coaching, it's a place to connect with others who truly understand your journey. Ask questions, share wins, seek advice, vent your heart out, and receive support in a safe, judgment-free space.Â
"I built this because I needed it and it didn't exist".
When I was in the thick of it, drowning in post-separation abuse, this is what I needed. I felt so alone, no one really understood what I was going through, it was hard to describe in a way that I didn’t sound crazy. You’ll find women in this community who get it, who are going through it with you, Women who’ve come out the other side, who have great advice and me, with almost two decades of lived experience and formal training from some of the world’s leading experts on these topics. But most importantly, you'll find Women who believe you.
This is your Survival Guide.Â
- SUNNY
Imagine having expert advice and a supportive community at your fingertips, where you are always validated, believed and respected.
That is the exact community waiting for you inside SJ Collective.
Join Us NowThe Story Behind SJ Collective
Sunny is a mum of three, a survivor, and the woman behind this platform. She's been in the thick of it: the confusion, the chaos, the Family Court, the slow road back to herself. Everything here exists because she couldn't find what she needed when she was drowning and desperate for answers. This is the resource she wished she'd had, and she built it for you, so you never have to figure it out alone.
Her lived experience led her to seek out specialist training in family conflict, recognising coercive control, she is a certified high-conflict separation and co-parenting coach, a trauma informed emotional abuse recovery coach and is DASH Risk Assessment trained.
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